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I am recovering from an eating disorder and want to incorporate healthy eating habits without falling back into old habits. How can I create a balanced diet plan?

Hello everyone,

I am on the path to recovering from an eating disorder and I am seeking advice on how to incorporate healthy eating habits into my life without falling back into old habits. I have struggled with restriction and binge-eating in the past, and I want to create a balanced diet plan that will help me maintain a healthy weight and mindset.

I know that I need to focus on consuming enough nutrients, but I also want to make sure that I am not overly restricting myself or focusing too much on numbers. I am hoping to hear about some practical strategies for making healthier choices and building sustainable habits over time.

Thank you in advance for your guidance and support.

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Hello everyone,

I have also struggled with disordered eating for years, so I understand how challenging it can be to incorporate healthy eating habits without falling back on harmful behaviours. One strategy that has worked for me is setting small and achievable goals for myself.

For example, rather than starting with a complete overhaul of my diet, I created a goal of adding one additional serving of fruit or vegetables to each meal. This helped me focus on the positive changes I could make rather than the foods that I needed to cut out of my diet.

Also, I try to take food as simply as possible, making foods from scratch whenever possible and only keeping whole foods in my house to avoid processed and unhealthy snack options. I also add in more plant-based proteins like tofu, beans, and legumes to avoid becoming too fixated on meat consumption, as this gave me the tendency of looking at food in a restrictive manner.

Another thing that has been helpful for me is incorporating a variety of foods and flavors into my meals to make it feel less restrictive. I experiment with spices, herbs and seasoning to make bland healthy foods taste delicious.

Lastly, self-reflection has been a big part of my journey. It's important to be aware of how you feel and what triggers your eating disorder behaviors. If things feel overwhelming, it's okay to reach out to a therapist, nutritionist or a support group as they can provide coping mechanisms to help deal with triggers.

Remember, recovery is not about being perfect, but about building a healthy relationship with food and your body. Patience, persistence, staying focused, and being kind to yourself can go a long way.


Hi everyone,

I can truly relate to all the experiences shared by those already on this thread. What helped me personally to incorporate healthy eating habits into my life was to throw away my old restrictive plans and create a new plan that centered around self-care and nurturing my body.

Although tracking your food intake might work for some people, I found it to be more triggering for me, so I decided to let go of any dietary structure or labels. Instead, I set a few simple guidelines for myself, such as eating more whole foods, filling up on vegetables, and avoiding processed snacks as much as possible. Over time, I found that applying these guidelines felt less restrictive and more empowering.

I also started experimenting with new recipes and challenging my taste buds. This helped me to break free from my comfort zone and add new things to my diet. Additionally, I found that educating myself on the benefits of whole foods and nutrition was a great motivator in adopting healthier habits.

It's not an easy journey, but with time, patience, and a loving mindset, it can be successful. Also, having loved ones who can provide support and hold you accountable can be an asset. Remember that healing is a process, and never doubt that you’re capable of creating a positive and balanced relationship with food. Wishing everyone the very best.


Hi everyone,

I too have struggled with disordered eating habits in the past and understand the difficulty of balancing healthy eating habits when trying to avoid relapse. One thing that has proven helpful for me is not putting emphasis on external factors such as weight or calorie counting, and instead focusing mostly on how I feel physically and mentally.

It's important to ensure that your diet incorporates a balanced intake of all food groups, including healthy fats and carbohydrates, prebiotic and probiotic foods/ingredients, vitamins and minerals as well as fiber. I also suggest incorporating mindful eating into your routine, which includes eating slowly, chew thoroughly, and taking note of flavors, texture and the fullness signals of one’s body.

Another great practice is meal planning and prep; it helps you to know what you’re putting in your body, saves you time and reduces the likelihood that you’ll reach for unhealthy food options when you’re rushed for time. I also suggest planning your meals around your social calendar, whether it’s going out with friends or family gatherings, that way you can fully enjoy the company without the stress of feeling like you’re cheating your diet.

It's equally important to seek out supportive communities where you can openly discuss your eating struggles, and obtain accountability partners who can provide motivation and encouragement. Finally, it's imperative to acknowledge that healing takes time, and relapses or setbacks may occur, but seeking professional help and taking it one day at a time can make all the difference.

Wishing you strength and success on your journey to a balanced lifestyle.


Hello there,

As someone who has also recovered from an eating disorder, I can sympathize with your concerns about finding a balanced diet plan. To start, I suggest consulting with a registered dietician or nutritionist who has experience working with individuals in recovery. They can help create a personalized plan that suits your unique needs and goals.

In my own experience, one helpful strategy has been focusing on eating intuitively rather than following strict rules or counting calories. This means listening to my body's hunger and fullness signals, and choosing foods that make me feel energized and satisfied. Additionally, incorporating a mix of different food groups - such as lean proteins, healthy fats, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and vegetables - has helped me maintain a well-rounded diet.

It's also important to find healthy coping mechanisms for managing stress, as anxiety and emotional triggers can sometimes lead to disordered eating behaviors. Engaging in hobbies or activities that bring joy, practicing mindfulness or meditation, and seeking support from a therapist or support group can all help with this.

Remember that recovery is an ongoing journey and there will be bumps along the way. It's okay to stumble and make mistakes, but keep reminding yourself of the progress you've made and the positive changes you're working towards. I wish you all the best on your journey towards a balanced and healthy lifestyle.


Hey there,

I have also struggled with an eating disorder in the past, and I understand the struggle of trying to balance healthy eating habits while avoiding relapses. After several years of trial and error, I have come to realize that (for me at least) dieting proves to be more harmful than it is helpful.

Instead, I would recommend focusing on overall wellness by consuming a varied, nutrient-rich diet and getting regular movement in throughout the day. In my experience, the more I fixated on numbers or restricting certain foods, the more difficult it became to maintain that behavior without slipping back into old, harmful patterns.

To combat this, I have found it helpful to obtain support from others when it comes to meal planning and exercise. Having an accountability partner or therapist can be hugely beneficial for staying on track during those hard days.

Additionally, I avoid reading articles or other content that contains information about certain foods being "off-limits" or anything highlighting restrictive diets. These types of messages often reinforce the idea that certain foods can be morally "good" or "bad," and may trigger disordered eating behaviors in someone who is in recovery.

Overall, it's important to approach your wellness from a place of self-love and patience. Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who specializes in eating disorders if you haven't already, and trust that this journey is a marathon, not a sprint.


Hi everyone,

As someone with personal experience of an eating disorder, I know it can be difficult to balance a balanced diet without falling back into old habits. One approach that has been useful for me is prioritizing an intuitive eating style that allows me to listen to my internal cues when making meal choices.

Additionally, I focus on not demonizing certain food groups or specific foods, I try to approach every meal with the intention of nourishing my body based on its individual needs. Another strategy that has been helpful for me is to lean more into the foundational principle of variety within my diet. Experimenting with new veggies like sugar snap peas, shiitake mushrooms and zucchini have allowed me to add flavor, texture and boost nutrition.

However, eating healthy does not mean feeling deprived of food. In fact, when I advocate for a more "flexible" approach to eating, I find that I can indulge in my favorite foods just as long as they are consumed in moderation. Instead of labeling foods as "good" or "bad," I now focus on my body's hunger and fullness signals and try to listen to whatever I may be craving at the moment without any guilt.

Finally, the importance of self-love, self-reflection, setting boundaries, and seeking a support system cannot be overemphasized. Recovery is an ongoing process, and apart from these self-help methods, seeking professional care may be necessary. Keep pushing through and remember that progress takes time. Not every day will be perfect, but with each day comes a new opportunity to practice self-love and build towards a healthier you.


Hey everyone,

I also had an eating disorder and I know the constant struggle to stay committed to healthy eating habits. A strategy that has been working for me is actually having a loosely structured meal prep idea for the week. As someone who works full-time and is always on the go, I found that planning out my meals and snacks has been crucial in staying on track.

I pick healthy, whole food ingredients and building meals around them. Then, I use containers to portion out meals and snacks for the week in advance, so when I'm pressed for time, I don't have to sacrifice my wellness. I also discovered that having a variety of snacks on hand like fruits, nuts, and veggies make it less likely for me to look for unhealthy alternatives.

Another practice that I found helpful is including mindfulness in eating. This means taking time to eat mindfully, focusing on the textures and flavors of the food, and listening to the hunger signals from my stomach. It's helpful in stopping me from eating too much or too little and reducing my impulse to binge.

In addition, it’s important to find some other way to treat yourself without turning to food to fill the void. Activities like jogging, meditation, or even drawing/painting can be a great distraction and able to soothe your mind.

I hope these strategies can help and always remember the journey to recovery is unique for everyone, but we're all fighting the same fight to heal ourselves. Best wishes on your journey.


Hey everyone,

As someone who has battled an eating disorder for quite some time, I completely understand the dilemma of trying to adopt healthy eating habits while avoiding relapse. At one point, I found myself getting consumed by the idea of creating the "perfect" diet plan, which only led to heightened anxiety and guilt when things inevitably didn't go as planned.

However, one simple strategy that remains effective for me has been trying to incorporate mindfulness and self-awareness into my meal and snacking choices. Before reaching for something to eat, I ask myself about my level of hunger or satiety, and then make decisions based on what feels right for my body. I try not to label foods as "good" or "bad," and rather just focus on consuming sufficient amounts of nutrients and getting in regular exercise.

It's also important to keep in mind that recovery is unique to each person, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Focus on building a positive relationship with food by allowing yourself to enjoy the things you like, while also challenging yourself to try new things that supply a well-rounded nutritional intake. Don't be afraid to reach out to loved ones or support groups as well, as having someone to talk to can prove to be an immense help.

Finally, remember that recovery is not a linear process, and there may be periods where you may hit a roadblock or slip back into old habits. Be gentle and compassionate toward yourself, put the focus back on your health goals, and keep moving forward. Take it one day at a time, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to a happy, healthy you.

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